Last week my wife and I went to bed. We began to touch us under the covers, pat, kiss ... I was already very hot and I thought based on reciprocity, as the whole thing was clearly sexually oriented. But at the very moment she told me: "Listen, I now have no desire to make love, I only desire that you will take me firmly in your arms, mmh?".
man's wife had lain when she brought her mother home - 40-year-old offender with a knife in his hand was arrested - Children (4 and 6 years) are cared for pastorally.
Obviously in the dispute over the custody of two children, a 40-year-old man on Monday evening in Laatzen near Hannover's 39-year-old ex-wife and her 61-year-old mother with a knife stabbed and killed. The witness had four and six year old children the bloody attack, her father and now pastoral betreut.Nach first information to the police the man had been waiting at the house of his ex-mother in a quiet residential area near Hanover. When his ex-wife drove up with her mother and the 4-year-old daughter and a 6-year-old son, the man stormed apparently without warning with a knife in his hand to the car and stabbed his ex-wife and the mother down the street . Both suffered fatal Injury. The still sitting in the car children had the knife attack with ansehen.Die immediately alerted police to arrest the culprits even with a knife in his hand in front of the house and took care of the abführen.Ein Notfallseelsorger totally befuddled siblings. Obviously it was in the dispute between the husband and wife living in divorce over custody of the children.
live in Germany currently has between 3 and 4 million fathers (there are also some few cases of mothers) who are not allowed to see their children as irresponsible and selfish mothers refuse to deal out of revenge, hatred, envy and greed for profit. In most cases, however, because the anti-male and mother-oriented family justice almost automatically granting the mother sole custody even though joint custody as normal and as the sole custody only in exceptional cases, provided by law. 
family court judge may at any / all are, who has / have completed the legal education and for a year as a Judge is active. Special psychological / family dynamic knowledge and communication skills are not required. The perception of supervision and training for judges is not mandatory. The Federal Ministry of Justice considers this an undue restriction of judicial independence. Professional standards, as in other professions that have to do with children, such as nurses in procedures, there is not. This is justified by the independence of the judiciary. It is no surprise that some judges / judges to blatant Wrong decisions is. Some judgments of family judges sometimes one has the impression that there gave more injured sensibilities of the judge in the decision to the decision, rather than focus on child welfare.
Maybe some family judges something presented another under its occupation, some wanted to maybe work up their own as a child suffered separation trauma, the others wanted to become specialists in spousal support, because their charge that the school is always so much fun. And now they have to do it all at once with so much emotion and practical psychology. Because in the long run is only one thing, set either to blinkers and arrogance, to make friends with the hitherto so unloved subject and serious consideration, or to change jobs and as lawyer specializing in family law, because that is after all not responsible for the child and may be sometimes sadistic, without him the state crooked does.
The family court on its own communication psychological features prevail, each will be clear who has long dealt with the matter. Since there are, as in ordinary life outside the door of the District Court, judges unspoken deal between family caregivers and procedures, family judges and lawyers, judges and family experts etc.. Just as the saying goes, "In life you always look twice."
Do you do me a favor now, I do you a favor later, is the unspoken motto. The family judge may think, if the expert determined what I already have in mind the next time he gets another job, if not, then he has had bad luck and I am looking for another. The guardian ad litem, who is supposed to independently represent the interests of the child, depending on the judge, as the latter would indeed ordered. Episode, the guardian ad litem will be careful not to put forward something where he brings in a sharp contrast to the judge. The lawyer has since even easier. He is financially limited by the judge-dependent. Quite apart is he not, since the granting of legal aid for his client in a particular case depends on the judge. If the lawyer financially dependent on legal aid and that might be the majority of the lawyers, he also will tend to hold more foreign exchange, the judge not to offend too much.
The naive layman suspects nothing and thinks is in there, although not necessarily according to his will, but at least everything above board, meanwhile, are in fact the decisions already made because certain people are involved in the process.
Source: vaeternotruf.de
